Only ask cause my ex is in a relationship with her male friend like a week after our breakup
How long was your relationship before the breakup? How long was the relationship having problems? How long has she been friends with this guy?A week does seem pretty quick, but I don't think it necessarily means there was anything going on while you were still with her if that's what you're thinking. Maybe there was, but it's possible that they really were just friends and he was supporting her as she was going through the breakup and the time leading up to it with you and something just clicked there.My girlfriend and I were platonic friends and both ended up going through a divorce at the same time. As we were supporting each other through that difficult and stressful process we realized how much we liked being together and the relationship changed to a romance.
We were best friends for 2 years then dated for 6 monthsWe were having a lot of trouble towards the end. She was getting controlling and her exes were causing fights. She told me a week before the breakup how "people say me and this guy always flirt" and she showed me her phone. I saw they snapped like 20 times in one day. She told me it was just for work. A week after the breakup she started the relationship then shoved it in my face how she already met all his family and spent the holiday with them. Like only a week after our breakup.
The guy she ended up with was the guy she snapped with
That does sound bad. It seems like people were noticing her flirting with that guy for a while before your breakup. Meeting his family and spending a holiday with them within a week after you broke up seems really fast but I suppose it's possible that they could have still been platonic friends and he invited her mainly because she would have been alone for the holiday otherwise.Regardless of what exactly happened when, I think her rubbing it in your face reflects very badly on her. That's just not a good thing to do ever.I'm sure it doesn't feel like it now, but I think in time you'll be glad to not be with her because if she was being controlling and you were fighting a lot and she was taunting you with her new relationship, then she doesn't sound like a good partner to me.Hopefully in time once the pain fades a bit you'll find someone new that's a lot better for you.
Nah she told me she had plans to spend the holidays with family when I asked her before the breakup. She spent the holidays with him then told me about it cause I was begging her back. And yea a week before the breakup she made me block a childhood female friend, I had to take my calls in front of her, she had dreams of me cheating
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