What does it mean when guys say 2 different things but actions doesn’t add up?

For example my ex wanted space and said he wanted to take a break from over 5 years of us together.. He said many things as in “He’s tired of being in a relationship, wanna work things out, wanna better his self, saying things as in planning stuff for us future wise, same daily routine he always does consistently”. Then he does weird things that are different which is entertaining females, becomes distant and some times. He says he needs space and wants me to leave him alone so he can learn how to better appreciate me and all. I’m confused. I gave him a break it’s been a month we haven’t had any communication but my family bumps into him, and his bump into mine for the past month which is weird. But he still close by, like he’s wishy washy and uncertaint and it’s childish
Updates:
6 mo
He actually texts me time after time saying he loves me
What does it mean when guys say 2 different things but actions doesn’t add up?
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