Yeah. But, he wasn’t a top-tier man. I still didn’t cheat on him. When you make a decision to be monogamous, you keep that decision. We are rational and logical beings for a reason
You’re making excuses to continue your suffering. Stop purposefully pursuing thought patterns which hurt you. You can try and fight and rationalize all you want about how horrible men are. Guess what? You, as a woman, are detested and hated by men for YOUR biological sexuality. It is unavoidable.A rational person would probably just settle down with the first ugly fat person with a good personality. But none of us wants to do that. None of us. Although it would probably make us all happy to find and love someone we can connect with on purely rational logical basis, the fact is, we must always contend with our biological realityMaybe if you understood better they way in which men feel hurt and degraded by the way women work, you would understand that we are perfectly balanced. You will be hurt by men, and men are hurt by women. This is a fact. We hate the way eachother works sexually. Stop thinking that this is one sided and only men are bad and women are good. From men’s perspective women’s sexual strategy is pure evil. If you don’t know why, maybe you should find out and then you will maybe feel relief.Personally I know that neither sexes sexual strategy is evil. Everything is about children. It’s all for the kids and we evolved the best way to make sure that children survive and carry on humanity.
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No. He was my boyfriend for a year. He has been my ex for 2 weeks.
We dated for a year. He cheated on me 9 months into the relationship. I found out 2 weeks ago this happened. I found out after we had been dating for a year.
Why did you break up? over this or something else?
That is terrible and it sucks. The pain you are going through just doesn't go away nor should it. It's really not about getting over it... one day you will be over it because enough time has past. But for now all you can do is focus on positive things in your life. Everyone needs to mourn their break up but also there comes a time where your life is more valuable then the pain you are living with. One day you will wake up and say okay this is enough.
I also read your question wrong so my bad... I would of given the advice below if I would of understood it differently.
This is horrible advice. Lol😄😄😄 she should be concerned with the cheating! Dont be hard on a guy? Hencheated with a prostitute when he has a girlfriend... that could have brought her stds!! Wow... and you're 58?
@Imcmullan Yes, I am. people need to be more concerned about their partner treating them good. I did say that cheating on your girlfriend is bad --- If you bothered to read my complete comment! Life is not Black and white - we must put thought into everything and decide what we can accept from out partner and what we can't. Your concerns do not only come from prostitutes but any girl that is infected.
Some people don't like to hear your advice, but it's absolutely true. I tell broken up guy friends to just give it time, and keep it wet.
This is really nice.
Sadly I'll have to agree, even thought what he's done is completely unethical and a shitty thing, we guys tend to look elsewhere when our partner doesn't satisfy an important need they have in their relationship standards.That once happened to me, I tried communicating to her about it but she didn't do anything about it, so I left, I didn't cheat because that shit is fuckin disgusting.
Also that need isn't necessarily about sex or beauty, I left my ex because she just didn't give me as much love and attention as I gave her which was pretty unfair, she was okay with sexual things tho but that didn't really matter at that point
Why do you two try to put the blame on the asker? Like you're trying to make it seem like the guy didn't do much wrong when he hired a fucking prostitute while he was in a relationship 😑😑😑
Not having what you want from your partner is a reason to talk about the issue. And if the issue is not solved is a reason to break up. If you are not happy in a relationship you talk about it and if nothing changes you break up. Big sides need to be happy in am fronts so not having a good sex life is a reason o break up. SimpleWhat you don't do is cheating! That is just a shitty thing to do.
No, that’s not it. I put in a lot of effort. He’s the one that stopped.
@Asker it's never your fault anyway, didn't you see it coming? Wasn't he rude or disrespectful sometimes?
@Syrian_survivor And why it is her fault? Where you there? He is the cheater.
@ThisIsMyOpinion I never said it was her fault, I said "It's never your fault anyway", he's the cheating piece of shit, I'm saying that she shouldn't feel bad about any of it
@Syrian_survivor We agree then
@ThisIsMyOpinionYas my dude, friendship
No. I didn’t see it coming at all! I guess that’s because he hid this “other” side from me. I really feel like he is like Mr. Jekyll & Hyde
Men who are sexually satisfied already wouldn't hire a prostitute. So what's your logical argument?
That I wanted sex more than him, and he clearly has issues. Women who aren’t sexually satisfied cheat too... I know many of them.
Also, if you read online, there are many cases where a man is very happy and fulfilled, and still cheats. I think it’s a character flaw within men. I’m sorry you hate women, it shows.
If a woman stops making an effort it is probably because all the gifts and compliments have stopped , I suggest you stopped with the effort first
@Asker then I guess you gotta be more careful, I'm really sorry for what happened, ignore the insulting pieces of shit here
If you are referring to my commet as well. My comment was clearly aimed at full metal jacket not at the asker
I was careful! I waited about 4 months before becoming his girlfriend. I took the time to get to know him, and didn’t rush sex or a relationship. I was a really good girlfriend to him (not perfect, no one is). But, I put in effort, and I gave him my time and love. I never asked him for anything. I just wanted his honesty, loyalty and commitment. I didn’t let myself go, I was getting my education, and I would dress up for dates (on Valentine’s Day, I wore a really nice dress that showed a little cleavage - I wanted to look good for myself and my boyfriend. And, I tried to do my makeup. He told me the dress was too sexy, and seemed uncomfortable with it. He also told me “you don’t need to wear makeup”. So, i don’t know. Even when i tried, he didn’t want me to.
@syriansurvivor im new here so i didn't use the @ bit but my comments quite clearly were not nice at full metal jacket. I think you misread my comment. An apology would be nice
if you are feeling brave enough, do a rash prank on him to humiliate him. that's what I'd have done!
His name doesn't contain the word savage without any kind of meaning.