Why doesn’t my boyfriend voice his grievances to me?

He never mentions behavior/situations he doesn’t like, or that hurts him, that i unintentionally do or have done.

I only found out recently after we had a huge fight (and we never have fights), about all the things that bothered him or hurt him.

I would always voice my feelings, and opinions and dislikes about behavior he did/situations. And because of that, he worked to fix it. But, he never gave me a fair chance to fix anything.

I am so upset. Because, now our relationship is on bad terms.

Why would he never mention to me anything that he felt was wrong/had issues with?
Why doesn’t my boyfriend voice his grievances to me?
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