I have tried talking to him, he swears he is attracted to me... I am attractive 32 yo in shape and have a high sex drive. He seems just fine giving me a peck on the lips in the morning before work... thats about as hot and heavy as it gets :( He won't go to counseling and says there is nothing wrong. I have said maybe we should go back to being friends and he is like no I want to be married to you forever! But I won't be happy in a sexless marriage. Also my birthday is next week. He works 7 days a week so we never have days off together to go do bonding activities. I asked if he could take off his part time job on the Saturday before my birthday to go on a hike... nothing too crazy to ask! and he said no i am not taking off work. then i said well can we go to dinner and he said we could use the gift card i got from my job for my birthday... i feel so dissatisfied and sad that i got myself into this marriage. We are basically living as roommates! and anytime i have tried to bring it up he says im being annoying or to shut up which has left me to stop even trying for intimacy.
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