I asked my boyfriend what dirty thoughts he had been having these days (he's on a business trip so it's been a long time without seeing each other). I used to ask this and it was really hot. However, this time I really didn't like the answer. I know men fantasize about this they actually want to happen in real life and I find this one so disrespectful to me. Now, I'm considering a break up since I no longer feel the same way. I'm so disappointed... Has anything like this happened to you?