How long of a break did you take from actual relationships?
Is it too soon to reach out to someone who just got out of a relationship this past fall?
It all depends on how close they were.
He was with her since 2016
I was going to focus on me and wait till 2020
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It depends for me fall is a year ago so for most people I'd say no go for it.
He’s also a cop and I know he’s going to be busy this summer. I was going to wait a little bit longer
Ask him out for coffee... don't wait too long if he's worth it someone else is looking too
Actually it has nothing to do with him. I’m not ready lol. I’m trying to get a better job and pass my licensing exam.
Good luck... but I still would not wait
Why you think I won’t be a rebound
That depends on the expectations you set going in. You can sleep with him... just as long as he knows you expect him to put time into the relationship
Well look at you. You were out of a relationship for 18 years. Doesn’t that say something lol it’s only been a year with him lol that’s what I’m going off of.
Yes but it's taken 18 years to find out what's wrong with me and why I struggle in relationships... I'm assuming he's normal
His big issue is he doesn’t talk on the phone or text a lot 😂. So if it’s the wrong time it’s over 🙄. So it’s best to do me now and worry about it later
That’s the issue with him 😆
Ok i get that.. lots of Single Aussie guys here
Haha. It’s fine. You know when your gut tells you to wait and you shouldn’t act on impulse. That’s how I feel.
I think it should be fine. My reason isn't cuz I don't want to just haven't found the right one yet
Oh I see. I’m also focused on my career. I was going to wait till 2020. And give it time.
It's kind of weird me and my ex are still best friends and do a lot of stuff together
I saw him on bumble after the break up but he’s never on. He also is going to be really busy this summer. He’s a cop and works nights. He sleeps during the day.
Oh so you don't actually know him
No I worked with him for two years haha. He switched jobs and he had a girlfriend so we stopped talking he said he didn’t have an exact time frame but wanted to talk again bc his relationship was going nowhere. I saw him on bumble this past fall so I’m guessing they broke up but he’s never on and I don’t want to be a rebound. I also have a licenseing exam to pass and I’m trying to get a higher paying job so I was going to let him heal, focus on me, and reach out in 2020.
Yeah that's a good idea. Do you think I should stop spending so much time with my ex I'm still in love with her and still not over her
I can’t answer that bc I think the same way 😂. But yes that’s what I’m talking about. He may not be over her. But I’d just do you.
Yeah for me it's a hard decision sometimes I think it would be better but I also enjoy the time we spent together
Someone told me I’d be friend zoned right now bc he is probably getting over his ex what do you think?
Yeah could be but nothing wrong with starting on his friends
So you wouldn’t rush into a relationship with him this soon
But either way you think I should give it time and wait till 2020