That's not a valid excuse either.
It is an excuse when you have no place to go and you have kids and divorce wouldn't fix that issue. I guess you don't think at the scenarios when 1 partner becomes alcoholic, crazy, abusive or anything that would. make you not want a relationship anymore. How would the court split an apartment in half? I am. not saying it is still not a shitty thing to do, i am just saying that some people can have an excuse.
Abuse os an excuse to seek legal and judicial assistance to get away from the arsehole. Infidelity is not.If he is abusive you would remain in the apartment. He would be put in a cell while a temporary protection/restraining order is issued.When it goes to court... he would not be allowed to return to the place of residence pretty much permanently. You would most likely remain there until the children are 18. Then.. settlement of the estate would occur and the value of the propery divided between the two of you.
Lol. That was an example. What do you do about an alcoholic partner? You can't put them in jail. The court doesn't give you half the house/apartment and evennif it is possible you still need to live but they will be aware you don't want them so more arguing and it would only make them worse knowing they are not wanted anymore. If you don't have kids then yeah, you can live but you may not afford to pay rent and raise kids.
You take their alcohol away. Marriage is for better or worse. That means worts and all. Relationships aren't always 50/50. Sometimes its a seesaw. Sometimes you have to pick up the slack, sometimes your partner will. Bit it's still a team effort. Marriage is marriage. A promise was made to God.
That is just dumb. You can't take their alcohol away and an alcoholic person is more of an annoyance than someone you want around. There is no guarantee they will ever stop. I won't keep this conversation going.
Ohhh yes you can!!! He made a promise that he would love, honour and cherish you. If he is breaking his promise you can absolutely poor tthe crap down the sewer pipe. You can also let them know that you love them and seeing them like this hurts you. You tell them you didn't marry a drunk. You didn't fall in love with a drunk. You tell them that they are breaking their promise to you, made in the presence of God.They are treated no less with the same tough love that any other adict. Probably a higher level of tough love because you love them.
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Hang on!! You are far too young to have this much HATE!! Who screwed you over? Not all men, are like that one!!
Don't know what that is