So, basically he told me 'We' were not ready to move in together. We've known each other for years through long distance and i moved for him. (Meantime i was living with family) His reasons: 1. He thinks I was lazy because i acted like a guest at his parents house 2. Because he thinks id be mad at him for gaming all the time. We had an argument over weeks and I was upset because a week ago he told me he wanted to move in. He wanted to come over each week to see how it would 'go' pretending like we are together as a couple moved in together and see how it would go then he could move in when everything is settled, fully furnished, internet, gas , power all on. And not contribute to being on a lease and paying bond. He wants to become a esports gamer so his time will mostly go towards that. While, im about to graduate from university in a year and will be able to get a full time job I dumped him 3 weeks ago, he seemed to let me go just like that. I don't know if it was the right decision made and i feel terrible.