Yes, as it is normal for them to sleep aroynd, will they changeafter marriage, or will they continue it after marriage too n claim that its their body and they can do anything with it, even after marriage
It's really dependent on their personality. I actually believe they are less likely to cheat on their partners later on, since I think them having a fulfilling sexual life in their younger years will make them not have regrets over not having enough fun sexually once mid-life crisis hits.There's also an argument to be made that they'd be more afraid to cheat. The basic premise of it is that, as men and women get older, men stop being interested in women who have been riding the "cock carousel", as it's called in the MGTOW community, thus making it actually harder for women who sleep around to find a husband who meets their standards. At the end of everything, women want security, a stable life and a loving and caring husband once they decide to settle down. But by the time a lot of them decide to do so, men who meet such standards have either found a woman who they're happy with (and who 99% of the time isn't someone who slept around), or they're more interested in looking at younger women who are less "tainted" and used, since that is actually repulsive for a lot of men. This means that a woman who has slept around and got married would take a big risk by cheating, especially if the man she has is decent towards her.
That sounds right... it may happen many times.But there are some different perspect to it as well.Like you said as they already enjoyed before marriage, they may not do it after marriage. But another perspective is that may be they would continue it after marriage as for them sleeping around is not a big deal for them, n also as her body is used to different partners, how will she control her urges after marriage.Just like when we find out that a person is a theif and has a record of stealing frequently, then when one day you have to to select a person to take care of your costly belonging, then whom would you trust for this work? Will you chose to trust the theif and say that as he has stole many times, so he won't do it now as he will not miss the stealing?And not chose a noble person who is honest n never committed any crime till now? Now will you say as he has'nt commited any crime till now, he will be curious to commit crime and see how it feels. Does'it work? Similarly, whom would you trust to not sleep around after marriage... one who has proven to sleep around tons of times, or will you trust someone who has shown their self control till now.And again , for the wife who slept aroind and did all acts with anyone and everyone tons of times, for them will anything will be special as they already have done it many times with others. But for the virgin husband it would be very special as he would be sharing this special thing with his special person in his life i. e his wife... but his overexperienced wife woyld be comparing him with her exes... n wonder if she could have still be with them... n then one day her urges returns like before, she would fall prey to it and again sleep with her exes, or the exes may return to her life for free sex by emotionally blackmailing her... and tgen will she be able to deny sex to them as she knows how brillient they were in bed. n she jas nothing to hide from them as they already saw all her body parts n also got to enjoy
all sex acts with her which even tge husband won't get from her ever as she might gave got bored of it and no more likes it. So they will always remain as superior paetners in her life
True. There's also that way of looking at it. But, for the most part, sexual desires die down in women as they enter their mid/late 30s and that's around the time they'll look to settle down. So basically, they wouldn't have such high urges to go ahead and cheat, save for a few moments when it might unexpectedly jump for some reason. This is why I think they're gonna be less likely to do it again.Your thief example is also lacking the same factor: the drive to do it. Just like women's sexual desires die down as they get older, you need to make a situation for the thief where his drive and motivation went down. For example:If a person was a thief back when he was poor and homeless and now he's doing really well, would you still be unable to trust him?
Your concet is also right.. that the desires may may in mid thirties n they are only saving some minor sex to consider in future with husband. But then their will be another problem... because that means the husband who got commited to her will only get the boring sex from her as now she is bored of sex and now she won't be having pationate sex with her husband like with her exes... so the husband will now only get the boring side of her whereas the exes got the best... so he will be on the inferior side forever, and thats what he gets for accepting her... unlike her exes who might have dumped her.N regarding the theif...Yes compared to a loyal person and someone having criminal records, I would trust the loyal one n not the ex- theives even though they might have changed.Because if tomorrow the same situation come in his life, will he able to hold himself from stealing... as he is used to it.So, once he got the ill reputation of being a theif, he won't mind it to repeat in past... as he knows his reputation is already spoiled
Exactly, and that's exactly why I said that their sexual value will diminish a lot thanks to riding the cock carousel, which will make all the good and successful men think to themselves "I've been working my ass off ever since I finished college to build up a career and these hoes never gave me the light of day while they had some value. Why the hell would I ever accept scraps from them, when I'm qualified enough to attract women who are younger, have higher value and are a lot more attractive?". And women know this, regardless of if they want to admit it or not. So when such a low-value woman finally finds a decent husband, she'd think 5 times before even considering cheating on him, since she ain't really hot shit anymore and guys won't flock to her like flies do to shit.Ah, the beauty of cosmic karma :) all we men really have to do is bide our time and spend our early and mid 20s on improving ourselves. At that point, the biological clock in women will be screaming and they'll be approaching you instead of you having to bother with approaching them. For the most part at least.
Bit as their body is used to dufferent partners, their urges will keep on striking them, therby compelling them to continue it after marriage as well... n if the innocent virgin husaband is even a little below standard in sex, her fulfilment won't be met and the urges will keep on growing n at last it becomes hard to control and thus they start to find excuse to sleep with her exes (excuses like , as they have already slept with them numerous times, n they have nothing to hide from them as the already know all her parts and also tried all acts with her , some even which her husband has'nt got yet, so its not a big deal if they still sleep with them just to fulfil their urges) . mMoreover, whenever she will meet her exes, she will get reminded of the rigourous sex she had with them, n thus she will start fantasizing about them therby getting prone to cheat.N if they have completely lossed sexual urges or completely got bored of it, then she will not try to have sex with her husband who was virgin and so he will have something left as for him as he waited so much till marriage to have sex with his beloved wife, but niw he does'nt get it as his wife is bored of it.So that will again inspire her to find another partner with whom she can use as a provider without giving anything in return... thus she will try to divorce the innocent husband therby making his life complicated. N thats what he gets got acceoting such a wife, cheating or comparing issues in both condition
And again, as they are used to changing partners, for them changing partners after marriage would not be a big deal, as she knows she could again trap more men in future
Will they be able to control their urges to sleep arond after marriage as theirbody is used to multiple partners? Or they would sleep around after marriage too n if a husband complains then they would give the excuses like "they are getting only my body n notlove", " its my body and I can do anything with it, etc?
The question was why wives have more sexual partners compared to husbands before marriage? Do women like to sleep around in the name of love and comparibility? How will the control their urges to sleep around after marriage?
There is no proof to show that women have more sexual partners than men and even then it depends on the individual. How do men that sleep around control urges?
Compared to earlier, it definitly has increased...(compared to earlier stats)
There's a difference between being sexual and sleeping around. Being sexual means you want sex, you crave it and you really enjoy it. Sleeping around just means you're a slut who'd basically jump on any random guy to satisfy you lust. And that holds true for both men and women.
I don’t agree but ok
Ok fine. Is there a limit to it? Or they can sleep around freely with unlimited partners both before and after marriage and have childrens fron different partners?
The limits is up for the individual to decide. At the end of the day we all pay consequences good and bad so how much a person is willing to take is up to them.
Well, I wouldn't really say there's a fixed limit. For me personally, the thing that matters the most is that all of the men she slept with was due to a romantic connection between then. If she slept around just to get off, then I'd be turned off, and women who do that usually have had a few dozen partners. But again, if she had 10 partners and there was something between them, I'd be fine with her, whereas if a girl tells me she slept with 6-7 people just to get off, I'd be turned off and somewhat disgusted.
Many will agree with you. Many will not. Not everyone in the world will feel the exact same way. So if there is someone, some woman who has had a lot of sex, there is another male counterpart who probably won’t give two shits about it.
Fair enough. It's why I said that's my own personal criteria. It's certainly true that there are men who sleep around who would be perfectly fine with having a woman who sleeps around.
Normal? And upto what number it is called normal? Is there an upper limit or they can sleep around with everyone before marriage in the name of finding compatibility n love? Many people sleep around after marriage tooo... is that too considered normsl?
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It sounds true... n why are these woman unable to control themselves and spreading rubbish in the nameof modernism?
Find it out in the internet... compared to before now a days women have more sexual partners then men. Its about the change in ratio of before to today
Great, can you supply a link?