For sure I don't regret the relationship as a whole and will always be thankful to her for all the good times we have had together!
Sometimes I wonder about, many on GAG have stated that they have never had a gf/bf. How would one feel if they have never love.
Yes I am a realesenship
@Rohan1213 :) enjoy the journey
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I was with my dude a year and 9 months. Moving on within that same month doesn't mean we didn't love you. It just means someone in the relationship waited to long to try to fix things 🤷♀️ No one has time to waste
@DizzyDesii I have to say I agree with you, but although there's already someone with whom there's the possibility of something happening, I feel like it would be wrong of me to move on so soon.Maybe I'm doing yet another mistake here, but I'd prefer to stay on my own for some months now. If that person will still be there it's good, but it's perfectly understandable if she got tired of waiting and moved on.
Its not wrong. Your girl wasted your time like my ex did because they were indecisive about what they wanted in life. Dont let her childishness hold u back from meeting what could be “the one”. You should only go slow until you're fully over thhe person. My ex BSed a lot so i was over him after a few weeks.
@DizzyDesii I understand, and I have to say you are perfectly correct on that, especially since distance has been building way before the break up.I'll still take two or three weeks for myself to collect my thoughts and settle myself, then I'll see what to do.
Yea like qe dated a year and 9 months but he grew distant outta nowhere, 3 months before when he came back from his cruise. He was so different. He even started smoking. He said we wouldn't work and i didn't wanna believe it cause he had no good excuse. I really dont think he met anyone but i think his fam got in his ear because they wanted him to themselves. I didn't wanna let go because we were posed to get our own place this past Feb and then marry this August. So i tried to get him to fix things that October-December. He didn't even try until like the end of December. I told him that if he didn't want me even after, then to let me end it before New Years hit. The bastard allowed us to surpass NYE and then we broke up the following week when everything became too REAL for him again. So screw his punkass 🤷♀️ I flirted with someone else 3 days later and was officially over him a week or two later. Deep down i was giving him until May too come back because i really didn't wanna feel like i wasted 2 years. But he didn't and oh well, im content and at peace now 🙌
I agree with you DezzyDesii. She did waste my time even if I felt like we both loved each other. She probably just loved me partly due to her having a new guy already a few days after our break up while I'm hurting and grieving over the break up. And like Jean-Maire_Céline, I take a few weeks to solve myself and settle myself. Find myself. That guy that wasted your time didn't deserve you. You deserve better because you are an amazing gal. I can see that just from you having a plan to do things and actually tried to keep the relationship together. I wish there were more girls like you. Especially my age since no older girl wants a guy my age😂
@DizzyDesii I'm sorry you had such a stressful and frustrating experience, it's actually quite similar to what happened with my girlfriend.First, she gradually changed for the worse.Then she refused to change for the better and improve herself.I changed myself and the things she hated for her, but she wasn't willing to do the same.Worse, in June I discovered she was hiding stuff - she got herself fired, took up debts on MY name (that I had to run to pay because one of them was on the precipice of getting my postal bank account blocked and put on the late settlers list) and started to abuse certain kinds of expensive online services.I gave her the chance to get help, settle the problems and turn around her life - she intentionally dragged her feet about it and even said I'd always be there to cover her because I was her "golden eggs laying goose". So I pictured she wasn't the woman I wanted to spend my life with and my resources on.I had already started to sleep separate from her and decline most of the intimate contacts, so I guess the distance built up.I'm still willing to try and help her out with her issues IF she's willing to work on them, but a romantic relationship is not feasible anymore.
I usually prefer someone my age but your age isn't a problem ironclad. As for the asker, omg he got fired from 3 jobs while with me and now he's trying to drop out of college to be a gaming youtuber. He doesn't even get views!! I used to click his pge 10 times just so he’d have 10 views 🤦♀️ So yea he's def going down the wrong path. All we can do is pray for them and let them go
@DizzyDesii Oh dear.You are right, especially when they start to take a toll on us and dragging our lives too in the drain.
Definitely! I so agree with both you guys😂
Yea like i thought i was gonna have an apartment/roommate, a ring on my finger, and a baby growing in my belly this year. I cried as the Lord laughed at my plans. Im just trying to be smarter and less expecting of others this time around
Don't fear and be sad. God isn't laughing at you. He probably wants you to go through some bad things till you get your one. Life is always full of challenges. It just needs to tackle those challenges how we feel.
No im not sad anymore. I just had to learn the hard way
My ex was actually pushing for engagement and I was on board with it - up until I discovered she hid stuff.I told her that first we would have fixed her problems and addictions, the went for engagement and marriage.She couldn't get arsed to do that so that's when I understood she just took things for granted.
I wasn't pushin for engagement but he was pushing it back. He said hed propose by December. He hardly even wanted to date me by December. So then he said he’d propose this June but we didn't even make it past January. He basically used the excuse that he was “just a kid”. Such a punk move how that came out the blue
@DizzyDesii I think he was already dodging and push away a responsability that wasn't even put in front of him at the moment, and this shows immaturity on his part in my opinion.
Yea he even called himself immature. But oh well, good riddance in the long run
Well that's pretty bad
@Cocacolaaddict How so?
You said you couldn't say "I love you" but the biggest issue here is your more glad of your own time then him
@Cocacolaaddict The lack of love was the reason. The time to myself was a benefit. We're still friends, and we still hang out together, just not nearly as much.
I think I understand what you mean, but as of now I'm just interested on staying on my own and not find anyone else.
Then you've graduated to a higher level.
It will probably be temporary, but I want to work on some stuff for the time being.
Enjoy the quietness
I surely am, thank you!
Good for you my man. Never thought the day would happen.
Everyone has limits