It's a long Painful road brotha
@BerettaBoy1 I agree! I have been always crippled by my issues and when it comes to relationships, I have been too pessimistic and it was for the first time I stepped out... and lol.. it proved out that I'm better off alone. Only my issues and pessimism grew stronger.
why not look at the good things in life? I was cheated on because she felt lonely. I worked 3rd shift..
@BerettaBoy1 I'm only pessimistic when it comes to relationships. The facts of being cheated on, being dumped and being left alone haunt me. Rest of the times, I seem like an asocial loner who never gives a damn but there are certain things you can expect from a relationship right (like opening up, not hiding things, being blunt, standing on clear grounds, being there for each other when in need, not leaving each other's side etc)? Ig it was still too much for ask for. I admit I have never been such a cry baby before 😂.
@ItsTheNephilim it looks like you have been hurt so bad. What all you mentioned about what you expect in a relationship isn't too much to ask for! I feel very sorry for you and it seems like that you were in a relationship with a toxic girl. I hope things get better for you 😊
its 10000000% normal. dude I'm 21 I spent 3 days in my bedroom sobbing because I lost my bestfriend. You are independent. you are strong. you will pull through alone or not. as my great grandfather said "Paul, there is plenty of fish in the sea, you just have to keep trying". mutual respect and trust is a huge thing in a relationship. it's a must. and being cheated on is something we must live with in this day and age. Being alone isn't a bad thing either. it's good to find yourself my man
@Asker I'm not sure if it was entirely her fault. I fucked it up too but I never left her side. People who know me always compliment my reasoning and sense. My logics and reasonings were never flawed so bad. The moment I gained trust in her, she did some things and I lost it all in a snap! My head hurted in places I never felt before, I was sleepless for 5 days and I was doing really bad at studies and some things more. I have learned something from it and I am not gonna repeat the mistakes. It was for the first time I let go of myself and I realized it wasn't worth it, rather, it was a train wreck.@BerettaBoy1 thanks man! Tbh I am a hopeless romantic and a pessimist about relationships. This combination is so bad and I can't do anything about it. I have been through my hardest times all alone and I have no regrets over them. I was over them quickly and it has always been easy for me to brush hardest of things easily. But this one, damn. I guess because it was my first relationship and I let myself go so easy and actually believed true love could be reciprocated, I am so disappointed now. The idea of plenty of fish in the sea looks good and bad to me at the same time. Hopefully I'll look at the brighter side. And 'being strong enough to overcome' has to include your true love too. Now I know. In the end, you're alone. No can know you *entirely*.
@ItsTheNephilim I can only feel your pain to an extent but I can guess you're going through a lot. You stayed with her no matter is what really matters. Whether you fought or loved each other, you stayed with her. If she is the one who distanced herself from you it's on her. She had to know that it wasn't only her who had issues. If you apologized for your the things you say you fucked up, you're good. If you ever want to talk to me and have someone to open up to feel free to pm me anytime.
I did apologize to her again and again and I continued to brush anything hurtful she did and never reminded her of her wrongdoings more than once, unlike her. I don't wanna talk about this anymore.Thanks for the invite but I'm good alone 😊.
That's very cruel of her. Maybe she was playing victim. It's ok I understand 😊
Idgaf now. I'm so tired of all this, I can't have this amount of hassle with me.
I'm here for ya @itsTheNephilim
It hurts so bad doesn't it. Let's hope we get over this soon.
more than you can imagine. we were bestfriends for 3 years before we started dating. I've known her for 6 years. she was my everything. now I'm just a lost soul.
Don't lose hope buddy!
I never will. she's out there looking for her knight in shimmering red beard🤣🤣
Yeah right 😂😂
hey now. I'm just tryna help
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time is your friend.
How much time did it take in your case?