Guys, have you ever experienced „the wave of distance“? Is that a thing?

„The most common way we sabotage new love possibilities is through what I call the Wave of Distancing (or simply, the Wave). The Wave occurs when we unconsciously push a caring and available person away by inwardly diminishing his or her worth.

Here's what this phenomenon might look like: You're dating someone caring and available, and there has been at least a spark of attraction for you. And yet:

• You can't find the sense of affection and desire you once had.
• You keep getting irritated at them or bored by them.
• Their flaws make you quickly lose respect for them, even if you don't show it
• You start yearning for the excitement of the hunt
• You feel like a fraud, pretending you're still interested when inside you just don't feel it anymore.“

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/finding-love/201101/the-wave-the-single-greatest-threat-new-relationships

have you ever felt this way and broke up with someone and you later regretted it?
Guys, have you ever experienced „the wave of distance“? Is that a thing?
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