So I've been seeing my current boyfriend for almost two years now and I love him. I realized that I wouldn't be able to be in this relationship if I had not learned from my previous boyfriend. My last/first relationship was in my senior year of highschool and now I'm going to be a senior in college. Our relationship did not end too badly, but he did do things to try and emotionally hurt me after we broke up. We also haven't spoken in almost 4 years now, so I don't know if this is a good idea. I also have no feelings for him anymore, but I do think that it sucks how everything turned out because we used to be best friends.