Don't say it's too long 😂. You asked for it.
I see. If I may ask you, what was she insecure about?
She continually kept telling me that she didn't deserve me and all those things. After a point of time, I started believing that it was me who wasn't good enough but well, she has been feeling that since the beginning and she had legit reasons (at least she wasn't always lying, there was truth in it). She also said how could a guy like me land with a girl like her. Her insecurities escalated when I shared my original Instagram with her. There were girls who followed me and many of them are fashion and/or fitness models. But I didn't follow any of them 🤷. Now I know I can do better, way better (that's just me).
I can guess what would make her feel insecure. But dude you sound a little arrogant in your last sentence.
Because my current one is hella attractive. I won't say much about her but know that she has rejected a few fashion agencies and magazines as she doesn't want to get half naked pictures of her clicked. Go figure. And she is the one who made the first move.
But I don't think that matters. We're together and we're happy. That's it.
My mouth is shut
Thanks for the MHO!
How long did it take you to get over her?
The day I broke up with her I was over her.
You are welcome, by the way my general rule for getting over a past relationship is one month per year. So if someone had a 3 year relationship they need to spend at least 3 months focusing on themselves and rebuilding their independence before moving into a new relationship. If someone starts one too soon, that’s a rebound and it’s not fair for the new person.
Yeah rebound sucks. But do you think that your rule is fit enough to make a broad guess on how much time will it take a person to get over their ex?
It’s a guideline, every individual is different. More than anything it’s a reminder people should take time to heal and shouldn’t jump into a new relationship too soon.
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