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She broke up with you, she's sad silly! Even if she's the one that ended the relationship it's probably not easy for her. So to express herself, or just get attention, she's posting all that sad crap NO! Do not reach out or check on her. That was her choice to end things, not yours. That's nice of you to want to check on her but you're not obligated to. Plus she'll think you want to get back with her again- Just keep an eye on her if you want, but I'd distance yourself from her so you can move on with your life too
Yeah you have right i even asked a mutual friend and he advised me not to say anything to her , and he suggested to let it her vent all her feelings and she will reach you again cause after the break up she talked to my mutual friend and she said :“I think he love me but we had so much arguments that lead us to a fight then to a break up and she added that she doesn’t wanna any relationship with anyone she just wanna be alone “ what do you think my next move should be
Just because she initiated the breakup doesn't mean she's not going to be sad about it. It's sad, and was probably a hard decision for her. It doesn't mean she wants to get back together, just means she is grieving which is normal on both sides of a break up. That doesn't mean the break up shouldn't have happened though.
She may be playing victim No, don't say anything to her. That's not your business anymore. She broke up with you remember?
Yeah but on her post she was explaining herself that I didn’t treat her well and I didn’t respect her as I should 🤷🏻♂️ but the truth is I was by her side all the time when she was suffering I treated her well and I always respected her , but we had some misunderstanding that lead to an argument then a huge fight then to break up
You have two choice.1. You could go under her post and tell her not to do that. That's wrong. You've done a lot for her and now she is trying to make you look bad.OR2. Don't even waste your time. You don't need to prove anything to anyone. You know that you didn't treat her bad and that's all that matters.
And If I wanna get her back and fix what’s broken , what the best to do to reach her and explain that I didn’t treat her as she said or just go with no contact rule , letting her vent all this and making her missing me and then reaching her after a week or two!
No, you don't need someone like her in your life. She basically left you and then tried to make you look bad. Move on. You are too good for her! There are women that are out here that have actually been hurt and would love for a man like you to come in their life.
When I talked to her guy best friend he told me that her mum is the reason she’s forbidden to talk to me or to hang out with me , cause her mum she’s afraid that I would something bad to her and now my ex she’s confused and upset about what she did
Wow! That's a mess. Either way you still don't need this negativity in your life. Just leave this situation alone.
So as my friend suggest that i will let her alone until she passes through her family problems and make her mind clear then we will see what’s gonna happen , because whenever i look back to our relationship all I see that we were in love happy we had bunch of special and intimate moments she used to say that to me and to our mutual friend (every time they met and she used to say to him that she’s so happy to have me in her life) so should i be patient for the things to get better!
I guess. Do what makes you happy though. I wish you luck !!
Thank you so much Keyarose
If she ended it than move on and don't contact her.
Well i asked her guy best friend he’s my friend too and he suggested to me that she’s just confused and upset , don’t say anything to her she will back talking to you cause she stills want you back , do you agree!
She ended it.There is nothing you can do.If she changes her mind it will be because she misses you.She won't miss you if you pursue her and contact her.Let her be.
Thank you man for this advice I appreciate it well we broke up because she had a lot of pressure family problems our problems so she was suffering from both sides but as you said let her be , and disappearing i guess is the best thing to do and that will make her missing me too
she wants sympathy
Should I say something to her or just keep quiet!
if you feel that you should go right ahead
But i have a feeling that if i do that maybe i will look like i m acting in a desperate and needy way
well then maybe not
So you’re suggesting that letting her vent all her negative emotions and thoughts alone and doing nothing is best way to keep respect and hope to get back together!
maybe if you don't give her attention you'd be better off
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