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I was a little bit obsessive after I broke up with my ex because I still love him. I stalked him on social media (and his friend). But that is toxic and I realized that I should not be doing it. But it gets really addictive. It is hard to just leave him so suddenly after him becoming my best friend and since I was used to chatting him almost on a daily basis. So, I deleted him from my friend list. What you can do is make all of your social accounts private as much as you can to non-friends and friends as well. Delete, block, report, offend her. Anything to show that you hate her. Publish new photos of you with a new girlfriend if you have found. I do not know how obsessive she is. But if you meet her, just pretend you do not know who she is and that you are not seeing her. She will just stop in the course of time.
I understand, but the problem is that I don't hate her - I want for her to get help (she has some serious issues) and be happy, but I can't be her boyfriend anymore.She knows I'm dating someone else, but in her mind she's "tolerating" it and she's convinced I'll crawl back to her, but this will never happen.
If she is a rational person, then explain that to her. But you cannot have both because if she is crazy, then things look otherwise to her. Either you take care of you ex, or you date your new girlfriend. But I hope there is someone else who can help her. Maybe you can help her with finding someone else.
As of now I'm trying to help her from distance, she's currently living with my sister. I had paid for her therapy back when we were still together but she stopped going after we broke up.The girl I'm seeing now knows her and wants to help her too, but she's also urging me to cut her out my life too.
Restraining order. Or the threat of one.
Thank you. I made a unique one for her, polite but stern.
Block her number. Block her social media. Change your numbers.If her stocking you gets real bad get a restraing order. Seriously to many pychos out there.Yes Women can stock Men. Why let her bother you she's an ex keep no contact. Hopefully she will go away. Good luck.
Your welcome my ex tries to find me. Has her friends stalk me I just ignore em
Honestly, it's rather messed up in your situation, given that your own sister is in the middle of it. Not much from what I can see besides just keeping as much distance as possible from both of them. If need be, get a restraining order.
I have one ex whom I know is kinda obsessive with me though he pretends otherwise. He will view my whatsapp status, comment on it in a sarcastic way or try to bring me down to the lowest level. I can't see him as one of the viewers because of his setting, but I am aware he is always watching me but assume I don't know about it. As long as he doesn't threaten to harm me or anything, I'd just keep my eyes closed. I think he is still hurt about me not begging to him when we broke up. If he ever shows any signs of hurting me physically, I won't hesitate to file a report to the authority and put him in shame. People like this need to be taught a lesson.
You don't? You cut them out of your life completely and ignore them. Any link theu have to friends and family, you set the boundaries and let them know that you don't want to know about them or even hear the name. I don't know why you still haven't done it yet.
I like how 3 girls reacted, yet no guys.Does that says something or am I seeing things?How would I deal with it? I don't know. I'd be in shock that this has happened to me. I'd be too interested to know what the actuall fuck is going on.
Apparently not many guys have to deal with that or want to talk about it.
I really think that you should not be in contact with this basket case. She's caused you enough pain already, in my opinion.
Yes, the problem I'm dealing with now is that she's not accepting the break up.
Block them. You don’t need that in your life. If you keep letting them get to you, they are not learning nor will they change. You deserve to be happy, remember that.
You are perfectly right, thank you!
I'll try my best to give you advice. I have never been through this. It would drive me crazy. Anyways, I would block him on everything. If he knows where you live, then you may need to put restraining order against him.
Firm and clear and failing that back it with police.
Cut all contact with them forget them focus on your needs and your self worth regain and start to rebuild your life.
I say "if I see or hear you medeling with my life, I will start logs and rapporting you to the police and I will not drop the charge. What happens after that it's on you"
Restraining order or no contact order in my case nothing else worked
Shut him down every time he will get the message.. ghosting.. or avoiding.. hiding... is not effective because it help build delusions.. friend and relative on your side or his can assist too.. it he might have too hear from others to that his actions have all ready passed the point of no return... n his time and energy better he focus it in a different direction..
Block them everywhere. If they try to approach you continously in person try to get a restraining order but that isn't easy.
By telling them to go fuck themselves, blocking them, restraining order and being willing to punch them if they come too close.
Block her at all social media, block her number and if she is a stalker and you can prove it report her
Block them in every way possible. Restraining order if they don't comply.
Blocked them. Like I did with all asshole ex-partners.
You block her and remover her from your life, root and stem.
Ignore them I've been fortunate enough to never have that problem.
I would report her to the cops if she kept harassing me because she should just move on like I'm starting to learn to do now.
Straight up tell them that you aren't interested. Rip off the band-aid. Easier for both counterparts.
Kick him in the nuts and tell next time he won't be as lucky
I thought it was a girl having problems sorry.The answer is not an easy one.You must cut all contact with her, this means no trying to help her even from a distance, she holds that thread hpoing to get you back she is using emotional blackmail.You should reall get her out of your life otherwise you will lose your girlfriend even if she says she wants to help her. which IS BULL SHIT she only wants to heli because you want to help her.
Block them on whatever you have them on and file a restraining order
What sort of obsessive?
She doesn't accept the break up, keeps saying we are still together, etc.
Get mutual friends or just your friends, to reinforce the break up to her
I don't know what you mean by she needs to get help? I don't think she's really crazy... she's just lazy apparently. Just ignore her as much as possible
BLOCK THEM FROM EVERYTHING
Block all forms of contact they have with you.
I set boundaries and am informative about consequences for breaking said boundaries
Try not to give any attention to them
Who? Sorry, never heard of that person!
I blocked them on media platforms
Block her :) easy peasy lemon squeasy!
I expected you to ask this question...
Easy, restraining order.
Don’t answer. If keep at block.
Give him a new obsession
Just block her from your life.
Block them completely from everything
Did you dump her?
Good for you bro. Based on things you've written here it seemed she was a bit toxic. Good luck to you.
Thanks but now I have to deal with her not accepting the break up.
Hang in there and don't give in.
Have you ever tried using the block button?
Block him 🙂
I don't know
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