Am I overreacting?

My boyfriend and I were the picture perfect couple. Everything was just so perfect until I found that for the first 6 months my boyfriend was texting his best friend naked photos of him and saying how much he wanted her. I confronted him and her and they both apologized but for one she didn't know I existed and he said he didn't know why he was doing it. Another 6 months goes by and it is our one year except I found out that he craved her and he told her that he didn't know if he truly loved me like he thought he did. I lost it and I asked him his families reaction and they said it is ok because he's in the military and he has needs and they are proud he didn't sleep with her ( she moves to our state next month). Also note I am a military person as well. I broke up with him because I couldn't trust anymore and his family doesn't see the wrong so why would he. Everything was so perfect except when I realized the other woman (who is married but In an open relationship).
Am I overreacting?
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