I messed up a lot with my girlfriend of 4 years. I've been going to therapy to work on my issues and just trying to be a better person. She rebounded with the total opposite of me. An excon busboy who works with her who has the gift of gab and I know because I grew up with him. There are night/day and when I asked her what she seen in him she replied I don't know but told me she still thinks I'm everything she wants but I need to get my shit together.