Literally threw away everything he gave me and burned all the pictures and letters and everything. I don't go to places where we used to hangout
That's great to hear,
I WL be honest with you , I have been with my wife for over 10 years and I still think of her from time to time. So the only true thing you can do is push forward and remember the good times and don't forgot but remember embrace the love you showed him. Cause if you bring all that negative emotions with you to the next guy it will not work out and you could miss out.. what I'm saying is be your self and love the next guy with gender eyes and soft heart. Hoping he will treat you the same cause in the end we never know what's going to be there when we age.. but we can show them we care and love them..
It was kind of toxic I guess. Taking away each others freedom. Always have to tell each other every single thing you do and he would get mad if I'm in hurry and forget to tell him something. sort of controlling I guess. And I do need to get over him but I think I'm seeking some kind of closure.
Yeah, that's pretty bad.. if you're needing closure you could attempt to talk to him. He might be in another relationship but maybe you both could use an apology? Don't let him be a road block in your life though, if you never get to talk to him again you have no choice but to move forward.
Yes! I'll keep that in mind😊 thank you so much for the help
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🙄 don't you think he must have done something awful and made me do that
Probably to get you back for takig his money and bitching at him about everything
Omg bitch I didn't take his money how can I take money from unemployed man anyway
Oh so he is unemployed, he has no money, now I see why you left him
I don't have to explain anything to you but I was very much in love and didn't want to break up but he was mama's boy and his mother didn't like me cause of our physical relation which is dumb🙄 and his mom told ua to break it off and guy didn't even text me or called me or meet me after that what was I supposed to do?
That guy used to tell about your physical relation to his mom?
You might just wanna stop talking to this guy, clearly has judged you without trying to know anything. Hell he sounds bitter.
And I don't know if he used to tell his mom or what I just got text from his mother she was going off at me and told me to break it off and all I did is texted him asking what's going on but he never replied
He has no job so he is dependent on parents. He has no option. Probably you should check if he has a new girlfriend. Talk to his close friend. If he has not it means he still loves you. You just have to wait until he gets a job.
He does have a job he is a photographer now. And I don't know if he has girlfriend or not. He is not in contact with our mutual friends anymore. Idea of talking to him and getting ignored/ rejected hurts me more than I can imagine
Was it your first love?
Yeah my first everything
I met my first love when I was 16. I tried suicide after break up but it failed. Now I am almost 28 and I still miss her even after so many more break ups.I don't think you're going to forget about him for few years.
🙁 but it's disturbing. I tried being with someone else but it didn't work out. It's like I'm trying to find him in other people
We are just humans. We are programmed to do what we are doing. If you want to escape from this loophole then you have to realise that you're in a loophole. You have to find the Stop button and press it.I keep watching movies and tv shows to stop thinking.You should research on "Why do we think what we are thinking?"
Okay. Thank you so much for helping out. I really appreciate it😊
You are welcome. 😎👍
😐 I tried! I was in a different relationship but it didn't work out and I seriously feel like I'm going to die single cause I can't be with someone I don't love
'Fake it, till you make it', one of the options.Take more time.Try to change all mental association with him, when you start thinking about him, just think that other person can be as good for it. Take him of the ' piedestal ' and replace with somene else. It will take time, that was only one think, that helped me, when I was in similar situation, only think that back fired I'm afraid to loose replacement even before I 'have' her. It taken me quite a few years more then it took you to this point to deal with it.
I don't know it's been 2 years. What if he ignores me? I'm too anxious to do that
There's not much else you can do.
Yeah you're right