Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 4 years now and at this age most of my friend's are getting married so I asked him about it yesterday and he said that he was rethinking marriage altogether because he would be treated unfairly by courts if we were to ever get divorced. I can vaguely see where he's coming from, he's some kind of successful app maker and I work in a record store so there's a huge gap between our income. He makes around 15x what I do so I looked into it a little and asked if he wanted a prenup but he said those get thrown out all the time by judges. I don't know where to go from here because I can't leave him but at the same time I want the married life. Does anyone have any advice?