My latest ex ( we were on & off) but each time he's ended it / bickered. He always said your not perfect you know but would never explain why he said this... I know I'm not perfect and I have never once said / believed I am. I constantly feel inadequate (not just in relationship but everywhere in my life) and I'm constantly trying to improve. He knows this so I don't know why he says it. I always ask him what he means (after saying I've never said I am perfect ). I'm just wondering if a lot of guys say this or just this particular guy and why he would say it?