Ok, here is the setup. What are the steps towards a breakup to you. One that is responsible, respectful and one for a relationship in which there is still love from one of the two persons. I'm not talking about short term relationships here. I want to know if you would rather try to make yourself less and less loved by doing things she/he don't like. Would you try to setup something straight forward? Most important, how is it possible to achieve most class and respect and choosing the right timing/circumstances.