Yeah definitely. All very good points!
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Ha Ha Ha you kill me. As always thank you for your comment!
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I feel that closure can be achieved within yourselfI 100% agree with this!
Yeah very shitty! Being a good person should always be the number one priority.
If someone saids' We are through" and doesn't say why... wouldn't you want to know?
I "suppose", but really... what if they just say "this isn't working for me anymore". And you say "why?", etc. And finally they say "I just don't love you". See where I'm going? The "why's" often don't really DO anything to give you closure, they're just an "answer".
Fair enough! I guess it depends on what you get from them. Real closure would be getting the truth but as you said... is anyone really going to be honest!
I believe in "most" cases, certainly not all, the truth is rather obvious to both parties and it's just a question of seeing it, accepting it and dealing with it. The harshest reality seems to be if the relationship went dead for only one person and they checked out emotionally, then went off to find someone else. The other person is hanging in for 6 months or longer, and one day they get told "we're not working anymore". Do you tell your partner "I've found someone else", even if they ask? Let's say you don't, and you split, but then you're immediately seen with the new person, as happy as can be. The ex will know anyway then, even if she wasn't told. So is it kinder to say it, or just let them find out? I'm not sure.
Yeah no I totally agree. Many times people hang out in their current relationship until they find someone new and the other partner is shocked because whatever the issues were they certainly were not brought up or tried to be fixed.
yea, I learned there was a name for it maybe 6 months into it lol
It would be super nice though if you!
@coachtanthony i know but once we are done I don't like looking back
Hey thanks.. so what do you think?
Each circumstance is sooo different. In general, if one can provide closure with reasonable thought and effort then they should! They are in no way obligated to though!!!
I feels ya on that!
woot woot!!! Some people just won't accept closure evry easily and it can get tricky!!
oh for sure! They would rather argue with you hiding behind the ideal of closure!