I've had a gut that theirs someone else. He lies soooo good he will go great links i mean great links just to cover up something silly rather than just admit and move on. Im a very understanding person I've always been told that i can deal with the truth, but when i already know the truth and u bold face lie looking me in the eyes i have a problem. Im the type to letem think there pulling one over on me, bc im waiting for that moment and I'll pounce and every lie he ever told he'll be dump founded. I think he's a narcissistic
Wow so your a lot like me. Lol... im in kinda the same situation my self and i can't wait to pounce but we have to be patient and have proof or all they do is deny deny deny lie lie lie. Im so sorry your going through that i know how it feels I've only been married 6 months so I don't know maybe they should have thought a little harder before they put rings on our fingers then huh? can't have your cake and eat it to.
Sorry girl, we've been together 4yrs, married 2. I'm sorry, it's hard and nobody really understands they just want u to shut up. But it consumes u, and unless ur going through it u don't understand ya know
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Honestly i think they use that excuse bc they want their trophy but also want to order off the menu. But if u do, its hell to pay
Honestly i think it's where i don't take his bs, i call him on it. In the beginning i won't have allowed the crap that's going on, he calls me names puts his hands on me and yet its my fault bc he thinks if he tells me to do something i better say how hi. I won't keep my mouth shut when im being disrespected I'll take an ass whooping. But i have morals. I've never heard my parents call each other names
I'm starting to think I'm better alone.
It's not right for him to physically abuse you, I'm sorry you have to go trough this As far as name calling goes, i mean its still bad but sometimes people have a short fuse (had an abusive ex girlfriend who did that) there could be an underlying cause to thatMaybe if this keeps happening, he should seek professional helpHe doesn't seem to understand that this is not something you can do, and if he keeps it up he'll end up alone again
Yes i get that. But truth of the matter we all can control our mouths, yes we're all guilty of that bomb explodes and later ur like wtf. But all the time, no that's just there justification
I don't mean to justify his actions, I'd understand if it happened once in a while after like a tough day.But when its something that happens often, its a serious issueAnd like you said, that bomb can go off, but afterwards he should either apologize and explain, or just apologize, we all lose our cool from time to time but that doesn't mean you get to be a dick all the time
Rarely does he, he trys to make me feel guilty. But I've learned that i didn't do anything wrong and its his guilty ass
Seeing as this is a recurring thing, I'd say he needs some serious professional helpAt this point, things will only end badly if he doesn't
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Sadly i think he's always been this way, he definitely wasn't in the beginning. I ask myself why do i stay
Sounds like a tough situation
He might be cheating.
I think he just had that mask on in the beginning. I've met some characters but he's the best I've seen. I usually know bs
I'll get real i think I'm mad at myself bc my gut said run, and I'm usually can get a vibe or whatever. He straight out played me. And I'm really angry about it. But more at myself
That's s rough