I have been off and on with my ex girlfriend for over a year now.. We dont talk for months, and when i finally start to forget about her she comes back. I always fall for it because she knows she has a pull over me. She beings so much negativity into my life. I want to stay positive and maintain my good mindset. She always sets me up for failure, and when i fail, she leaves. So ladies, please let me know if you can help. Im tired of going through this same process over and over again. It just hurts me more than i am already. I will try anything at this point..