My husband and I have been separated for 3 months now. The divorce word has been thrown around, but no actions have been made. He has a new girlfriend, but still sleeps with me in my bed every night of the week except for maybe once (when he goes to see her). I’ve asked him if he wants a divorce and he says “yes, I guess, I don’t know” (that is his exact answer. I’m just so confused with all of this. We still live our lives the same, except for not going out together. I do my thing, he does his, but we sleep in the same bed. Any advice would be great at this point. I’m not sure he knows what he wants, but I can’t allow myself to be a side piece or whatever I am.