Perspective on starting over at 40?

My husband and I are very close to a seperation. I'm 99% sure it's not something we can change now, and after that divorce. I married late I was 36. I'm now a week or so away from 40. We didn't have kids he didn't want to adopt and we had fertility issues plus I had health issues that made pregnancy difficult.

Any of you with stories of starting over at this age? Of finding love again? Having kids adopted or natural after 40?

I'm in a pretty dark place and I could use the hope.
Perspective on starting over at 40?
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