We had been together for over a year and everything was great. He has some issues with weed addiction and identity/self esteem. He wanted to break up with me to "figure out who he is" and to sort himself out. Guys out there, do you think he will ever come back? He has said he wants to, but that he can't be or give me what I need while he's still struggling with his own issues. Have any of you ever experienced this? Do young men (hes 22) often have these quarter-life crises? I do hope he's ok, but I miss him so so much.