It is wrong to feel you have obligations towards your ex?

It is wrong to feel you have obligations towards your ex?
Maybe it's because of the way I feel guilty for breaking up with her, or because I promised I'd help her as a friend; but I keep helping her out with her issues and paperwork and such to get her career back on track.
My girlfriend is alright with it (she says it's always right to help someone in need) but naturally she says within limits and that I shouldn't feel obligated.
What about you?
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I personally think that one of the reasons my current girlfriend is alright with it is not only because she believes that it's always right to help someone in need, but because I know one of her exes (which I knew as well) did die in an accident some months after they broke up.
Maybe that's a reason?
16 d
It's not easy and it's even frustrating to try and help everyone, but I still think it's the right thing.
Maybe I should put some limits though.
It is wrong to feel you have obligations towards your ex?
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