Saying things like “I’m so sorry. I made a mistake” I will change this time. I will be better this time.” And then pleading to have sex or trying to get you to cuddle and kiss with them. Having this kind of after breakup torture sucks because you see about the people who hate their exes and want nothing to do with them and you wish that you could be that way too but you can’t find it in you to hate them or want to be away from them. And then they use that knowledge to hurt you with empty promises. Does that make them a bad person? Does it mean that your ex purposely hurts you and just doesn’t care about how it affects you?