Agreed and agreed.!
Agreed that relationships are hard. This new generation (old people saying 🤣) doesn't get you have to put effort into a relationship. With so many people causally hooking up, cheating and lying, and then having their actions justified by others, they think it's ok. People don't value what really matters in a relationship anymore. Now it's all me, me, me... What I want, what I need... What about what your partner wants? What about what your partner needs? Relationship means you think of one another another's wants and needs.
I agree with you that it looks bad, especially on GAG. I think that there are plenty of people in normal relationships though. I just think that with social media, the hook up culture is more visible.
I think social media is destroying relationships. Of all kinds. More people are spending sooo much time on social media instead of having real connections, the whole time using the excuse they're too busy to do anything.
I also agree. We are addicted to notifications. I actually passed on sex with my SO the other night to catch up. Now, we had just had sex the previous night and we usually don’t do it more than once a week. Yet, now I regret it. Should never pass on sex!
Agreed get off the internet and on your SO every time it's offered. 🤣 Plus us older people gotta worry how long we're gonna be able to physically be able to have sex.So NEVER turn down offered sex, and might wanna increase the once a week to more 🤣 or might regret that too. My husband's been gone 6 years 😕 and I STILL regret all the times we could've had sex and didn't. Taught me a lot about what's really important and what's not.
Wow, you are so right! I want it more, unfortunately when I want it she doesn’t or vice versa. Often, it is too late and we are both tired. I will just fall asleep on the couch or bed. Every time we do it, we both say that we got to do this more, but we don’t.
Make there effort. That wasn't even the case in my situation. My husband was very sick for years before he passed so between doctors visits, hospital stays, work, kids, declining health sex kinda went to barely and then not at all the last year. Making me regret all the times we didn't before having all those obstacles. Live every day like there's no tomorrow... Because there just might not be.
I am very sorry for your situation. Thank you for your wise words. I will make more of an effort.
Thank you. And good. It's refreshing to talk to a man who doesn't place all the blame on the female and who is willing to work to improve things. That's what a relationship is supposed to be. If more men had your attitude, they wouldn't be whining about why they can't keep a relationship and mostly place the blame on the female or vice versa-women do it too.Happy Holidays and don't forget to give your SO the candy cane in your pocket 😉🤣
Yes, I understand it’s not her fault most of the time. We have to work together for the sake of the relationship. Are you at a point, that you can see someone new? If so, I hope he is a good guy who appreciates your experience. If not, I understand and I hope you enjoy the Holidays with Family and Friends. Regards.
For a long time, I wasn't. Then after few years, tried couple dates but seemed like they all just wanted one thing. That and other issues I'm dealing with at the moment have me back to maybe Im better single for the moment. Best regards to you as well
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Oh I agree. But then again, lack of values and morals cover a multitude of reasons why people break up. Like cheating- lack of value you don't value your spouse much if you cheat on them and it's morally wrong if you gave either an oath or your word not to.