How can you get over an ex?

my ex and I have been talking. I can't get over him, but he hurt me which caused me to break up with him. come to find out he just wanted sex and he never loved me.
him: "I need affection, you never gave it to me. And we never did sexual stuff till a year later after dating. that's too long" Oh so its just about sex then. I get it. I'm never dating anyone again. I fall into the wrong hands of guys all the fucking time and I'm giving up. the right guy doesn't even exist. love is a waste of fucking time. I feel like it doesn't ever work for me. It just hurts, what do I do?
1 mo
I'm not claiming I was perfect in this relationship I'm to blame too I just wanna make that clear.
How can you get over an ex?
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