So my guy friend and I were on the phone a few weeks back and I forgot exactly how we got on this topic but he ended up saying that he hadn’t been messaging me as much as he could. I told him that I understand since he has a girlfriend. He said that’s not an excuse. I ended up telling him that’s why I had cut back on texting him. I had said would she appreciate if I we were texting all the time? I forgot exactly how he answered that. It wasn’t anything bad though. It’s not like we’ve not been texting little or none since he started seeing someone. I guess he’s pointing out that he’s not the one initiating as much as he could. Why would he think I’d expect for him to text me first more often when I know he has a girlfriend?