My boyfriend has a hard time communicating. He’s genuinely not sure of his feelings and doesn’t know why he acts certain ways sometimes. A few nights ago we had a conversation about how he grinned on one of my friends, and I let him know I felt disrespected and hurt that I wasn’t invited to this party and that he would try to keep secrets like that from me. During our conversation he also let me know that he gets angry when I make comments and jokes during conversations and gets annoyed whenever I laugh at things that “just aren't funny” he also let me know that spending time with me sometimes feels like a chore and that it takes a lot out of him. I asked him what I could do to help and he told me to stop making any side conversation and jokes/laughing at random things that “aren’t funny.” I feel like that’s kind of my whole personality and now I don’t know what to do. It’s been almost two years of dating.
Grinned was supposed to say grinded oops