Lonely and bitter and it's all women's fault. Typical man
@Purple_Summer On first take, I have know idea why you would come to this conclusion. You don't know me. I could be swimming in females, but that alone is no prescription for happiness. Connection and caring are the main ingredients to happiness.The fact that I speak from experience and back up my findings with solid facts means that I have overcome loneliness through lowering my expectations of females. I now understand that as a group, women are more greatly flawed than are men. I guess that truth hits you a little too close to home so, you feel the need to hit back.No, I think it is you who are lonely and bitter. Isn't that why you are trying to project yourself onto me?
You do have an idea how I came to this conclusion, that is why you explained yourself right after. your experience does not define experiences for everyone else and the rest of the females. Your view is very bitter and resentful, you put all of the females down because you can't handle the idea some of them would turn out the same disappointment like before. This is why you are not swimming in females because you have decided to stop caring.
@Purple_Summer My review is very clear and honest. Something I am quit certain you are not familiar with. And, get ready to be sick. I am literally swimming in females and only the best of the best get my attention."News Flash." you ain't even close.
Men who speak of females in that manner are never swimming in them. And if they were they would definitely not be spending their time here on G@G expressing their bitter thoughts in overly long replies.
@Purple_Summer t's a strange world. Women love strong men. You'll figure that out eventually.
Strong men don't blame all their relationship issues on women, they own up to their own and they don't whine about womens faults the way you to. Some day you'll figure that out
@Purple_Summer I have explained this in great detail in other posts. It is clearly always 100% the female who ends the relationship. The fact that you are so hardheaded that you won't admit it is just more proof of how impossible you can be to deal with.
Why would I accept something that is extremely untrue. doesn't matter how detailed your explanation men mess up in relationships all the time and badly, they also initiate breakups and end the relationship. if this is not something you witnessed in real life or you refused to, you have Xper 4 on here which means you definitely read many posts here where men are talking about their mistakes and wanting to end their relationships.
@Purple_Summer That's not the point. Women kill the relationship 100% of the time.
Nope. Not 100%. Half. Both men and women have their faults, men are far from innocent. Maybe women ended all the relationships you've been in so you are burned and can't see it any other way.
@Purple_Summer Never said they were innocent. Just that women control the switch. They turn it on and they turn it off. It is so obvious a blind person can see it.
men have a choice too and they take it often. there are many picky men out there who end relationships based on smallest things, women are the loyal fools who keep forgiving and putting up with no good men, men are not nearly as loyal
@Purple_Summer I don't know where you been but women are the conniving, faithless, backstabbers that have men running scared.I've even been told by other women that a man is taking his life in his own hands when be is alone with a woman. That is your own sex warning men not to trust you. I used to work in a bar where the head barmaid was selling booze out the backdoor for cash. The owner put up more cameras to try and stop the theft, not because he didn't believe me, but because he lived in fear of what this woman might do to him in retaliation if he fired her.Then she and a co-worker started rumors telling others that I was a rapist and to beware of me even though I seldom had any interaction with people other than management.The stir got so bad that it became obvious I had to quit. I went from being trusted to lock the doors at night to being told that all the barmaids were talking about quitting if I didn't leave. They hired a total drunk to replace me and the stealing resumed. So when you want to run around telling how great you are, know this. There are people in this world who know the truth and have seen first hand the damage that women do.
these are just a few examples. I could give you plenty of examples where men acted vile disgusting and like monsters. the point is BOTH men and women can be either good or bad. your examples do not prove every woman does this and my examples would not prove all men are bad. everyone is different. and you are 51 years old which means you already know of many stories where men did horrible things just cuz they felt like it, so focusing only on examples of one gender and ignoring the other is plain stupid.
@Purple_Summer So, while you speak in generalities and I give specifics, and that somehow makes you right? Then you call me stupid because I don't agree with you. Take a look in the mirror. Men a fairly simple creatures. No mater what, you keep feeding them and they'll keep coming back. Once the food is cut off, they go elsewhere. You are in control of our dietary needs. You decide if we get satisfied or not. Yes there are terrible men in this world. That is not the point. The point is that woman decide when the relationship begins and when it ends. Men have no part in that process.
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I think most would say she caused the break up.
Yes, I understand, but she would say that I caused the break up. It's a matter of perspective.
Which is my point to the question. It's an eclectic personal view of the relationship at hand. There is also a common sense factor that applies. I am abusive with my alcohol and you don't accept that then it's YOUR fault for not accepting that thus causing the break up. Common sense and responsibility are not present in that argument.
Hi yes ur so right
Can I ask you a question
@stars1968 Yes, you may.
Would you break up with a great guy if he doesn’t have a big penis
@stars1968 I don't focus too hard on penis size, as long as he can use it, then I don't really care. If I enjoyed the relationship and the person, then I don't think I'd make an issue over it. Sex isn't everything, sure it's nice, but I like affection as well.
I wish more women thought like that
That is not true. Woman analyze the relationship on a far deeper level than do men. Thusly, they are the gate keepers who decide what goes and what doesn't go.They will not even consider a relationship with a man they cannot control. So, as a man grows stronger and a woman grows weaker, she feels that her control over the relationship is shifting and that it is something she no longer wants.Her withdrawal from the relationship begins in steps and culminates in his removal from the bedroom.That single act ends every relationship and it can only at best become a negotiated settlement.There is no sense in mincing words. Woman make the choice who they will lay down with and they choose when it is over.
The breakup is between two people. Cause of a breakup can come from only one person. For example if one partner cheated that would cause the breakup
You need to ask why they cheated? Its usually because there's a unresolved problem between the 2. If 2 people are in a happy thriving relationship there is no reason to cheat... Again actions have reactions...
they cheated because they are selfish there is no other reason. one person can think everything is good in the relationship until someone cheats. unresolved issues can be solved if someone talks about them instead of cheating. actions have reactions, but breakups can be caused by one person
Maybe that was your experience... like you said unresolved issues are between "2" people... happy couples don't cheat...
The only way to solve any problem is first acknowledging there is a problem... people that think they are always right and the problem is not their's are the selfish and closed mind ones that are usually to blame because of their unwillingness to accept there is a problem...
If you want to chat more about it you can message me directly
there is nothing to chat about. issues are between two people but breakup can be caused by one. the other person might still want to stay together and work on things.
Lmafo... just like you said the issues ("2 people") are the cause of the breakup. The decision to quit maybe by "1" but that is not the reason (cause) of the breakup...
For SOME cases. If a person cheats that is a cause of one person, there does not need to be issues in relationship for them to cheat, someone can get drunk and allow hormones to take over. Someone can realize they are not ready for a long term relationship and leave while the other person is happy, again, the cause is one person only. Someone can simply be tired of being in a relationship and miss the single days, even if a relationship is good, so they leave. Again, one person cause and one person ends it. There are endless more examples of one person causing the breakup, if someone messes up in the relationship badly enough for it to end, it's very spineless to look for what the other person might've done wrong to set them off, what they do is their choice and it shows their own charcter, not the wrongdoings of their bf/gf.
Sure... you keep telling yourself that...🤣🤣🤣
I definitely don't think it takes 2 to make a mistake. One person can be deceptive or abusive without any help.
for the record, a single person is very capable to have sex alone, Coming back to the real subject, I believe It needs the contribution or not contribution of each of them for things to fall apart. One can make a mistake but it is in the other's hands to decide weather or not it is worth to forgive. Everyone has its own standards, some people is able to forgive some real difficult stuff and they snap all of the sudden for something insignificant.I believe, mayority of times we force the other into doing things behind because we decide somehow that the other must do what I want to please me, we confuse that with love... I say, let's look it from the other's point of view. We must learn to respect the freedom of everyone else. When that happens, if things don't work out is simply because they were not meant to be. Keep enjoying life the way it makes you happy and it doesn't directly affect anyone.Happy Sunday everyone
Divorce would not exist if people used logic instead of emotions. But people are reactionary causing 2 individuals to fall apart. Though one might start the chain eventually both agree to discuss n this divorce.
That has got to be one of the dumbest things I've read here. You'd look pretty stupid on the dance floor without the band playing and once the music stops, it's time to pull yourself together and move on. Some relationships become physically dangerous with partners scheming to even murder one another, especially when large sums of money are involved. It's not your fault you lack experience. Your still just a child, but breakups are generally planned in stages and in advance by the person who is the most devious.
Sounds like someone has been badly hurt...