Like actually got back together and split-up a bunch of times? I think he broke up with me maybe 7or8 times. I broke up with him 2or3 times. This is over the course of 3.5 years. Does this type of pattern automatically mean the relationship was toxic, or could one/both parties have just been commitment-phobes, immature, or in dire need of some mental-health help? What is your experience?