She's right.For me I also learned that you need to look for someone who is already on the same page with whatever it is your trying to do. Don't make the mistake of trying to change someone to meet your standards.I was the person who wanted to help carry someone and be there "savior".I spent a good bit of time, energy, effort, and after it not working out it really makes me feel like I wasted my time when I could have just been more picky. I didn't want to have to do that with females but I guess you have to with everything in life. Picking good Male / Female for partnerships or relationships are no different.Trust your gut you'll know...So ya like she said, stick your standards. If your religious, put that first. Also focus on your purpose like a lot of people talk about but it is true. Then once your truly ready and you put in all the work to improve yourself. You will not settle for less and I believe you'll get what you always wanted because that's what you'll attract once your at that level.In my opinion doing it like that you'll have a much better chance at having a genuinely healthy loving relationship where you can actually bring out the best of one another and accomplish great things together.
So even though you hated smokers you got into a relationship with a smoker. You obviously made it clear you didn’t like this aspect of him as he at least tried to quit. Why do women complain about their partners when their partners won’t change to suit your desires. Did you consider taking up smoking to make him feel like you had more in common? Of course not, it would be ridiculous. If you don’t like smokers don’t date them. If you do don’t then complain about them being smokers. JHC are all women as self involved?
Your absolutely right about the cheating part. Though when my wife was having an affair it was the children and I who had to move out of the 4 bedroom 200,000 pound house. One guess as to who put down the deposit and paid the 800 pound a month mortgage even though we were earning similar amounts. Imagine a man having an affair, telling his wife who had paid all the bills to move out with the kids, and then the man continuing to receive child benefit. Would never happen
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so true. to not trust anyone completely.
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