Please don't be rude or mean. We were in love equally both sides for a 4 year relationship. First 3 years were heaven the last year (year4) was very hard on us and took its toll. He has moved forward and on with his life, we are friends for a year now after break up (no intimacy) but I'm realizing for a year I couldn't get over him and still today I have moved on but feel heartbroken still. How does someone repair heartache and feel ok to love someone new again. I feel that ok to be alone but also I desire a companion I'm just not seeing anyone I want as we had it very good with eachother we both are having a hard time finding new partners.