How to move on from an abusive ex?

Anonymous
So my ex was abusive both mentally and physically. It took me a long time to admit it to myself, and I felt like it was my fault he was that way for most of the relationship. Even when I started to realise that it was abuse, I still made excuses and blamed myself for the abuse. He ended up leaving me for his girl best friend, and I'm trying to recover from the experience now but find myself looking back on the "good" times still and missing them, and feeling like I could have done things differently to make it work. And I wonder what is so special about her that made him choose her over me, after I gave him so much of my attention
How to move on from an abusive ex?
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