Thanks for your detailed message. If I felt nothing for him (the guy I was talking to)- I’d find it easy to delete right?I know I can kid my self on that I’m happy but kidding yourself on can only last so long?To be truly committed to my marriage I need to delete the number otherwise I’m just keeping a door open right
You and your husband have to sit down and talk, having a counselor facilitates this, and they are supposed to provide guidance. They'll also give you recommendations and tasks that each will do to help rebuild the marital connection. This is a severe breach of trust, a complete breakdown of the covenant. And you have to both agree that you WANT to stay together if possible. If one or the other isn't sure, or can't commit, it will NEVER work. And yes, you have to cease all communication with the OP (other person).As far as being happy, when you're trying to attain a certain connection or place in your mind, sometimes you have to fake it 'till you make it. You focus on what you WANT, not what you don't want or don't like. And while you can't blame the victim of cheating, there is nearly always culpability for failures in the relationship. So whatever it is you need for you man to do to keep you true, you need to be able to convey that and he needs to be willing to change, improve, make an effort. So you cheated because of SOMETHING. You were bored, or lonely, or frustrated, or liked the attention, or something. You need to be able to identify WHY you did what you did, and then change the situation so you no longer have that. It takes work, yes it's hard, but the success of your relationship depends on it. I've been on both sides of this, a number of times, and rather an expert on it. Have done counseling, conducted marriage seminars, and worked with couples. It is messy, and complicated. But you can work through it if you both have the desire.
Where are those numbers coming from? Do you have any source I can check?
@RemoErdosain - Yeah - Browneye. GTFO
If you doubt them, bring evidence. It's not my job to refute stats.
Chill out, it was a simple question, dude. Now I know you were pulling numbers out of your ass, which you can certainly do
Totally agree. Why are the cheaters even alive? You're describing my ex boyfriend. He also pretended to make things work but then still pissed me off, then I abandoned him and he blamed that I was the one who was over reacting.
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What a pointless dumb answer
what a pointless dumb question. if somehow your husband does forgive you there's no way in hell he's going to with that number on your phone
What was the point I. Telling me about someone dying? No relevance at all
Joking obviously as this is tierd obviously and not real