Have an ex who I still care about deeply. It’s been hard trying to get over him. We sorta ended things a few months ago but he reached out to me a lot, and I didn't really reciprocate. I needed time to try to heal. Anyway, my birthday was 2 days ago. He knows for a fact but didn’t say anything. I’m really upset because I thought we were still friendly/friends. Is he completely over me? Or is this just an unspoken rule? Please help. Kinda hurt me to the point of crying. Anything to help me move on/ feel better about this.