Under what circumstance would you consider breaking up with your partner?

[nodnol32]

My girlfriend has been behaving rather strangely since the past week or so and I'm not sure if i want to be with her anymore.

Updates:

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I broke up with her.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

When he makes me feel unimportant, or embarrassed to be seen out with me, when we are sitting in the same room but we feel miles apart...
Sorry it ended, but you have to do what's best for you to make sure you're happy with your life

[BButterfly]

When he start disrespecting me and lying and stop loving me.

[jennifer_bloom]

If he doesn’t show affection or pay attention to me or pursue me by spending time and effort keeping me happy or if he shows blatant disregard somehow - like one time the guy I like made a spill at work and he didn’t even apologize when I went to clean up the mess he created - but in the 4 months I knew him that was the only time he ever disrespected me

[CallMeDave]

- If she cheats
- If she lies repeatedly or about something big so I can't trust her any more
- If she's verbally or physically abusive
- If being with her is making me more unhappy than happy over a significant period of time, I've discussed that with her multiple times and/or gone to counseling to try to find a solution, and it becomes clear that we're just not compatible any more.

Just being upset with her short term isn't enough (unless it's for one of the first three reasons above)

[DestinyElizabeth04]

Have you tried talking to her about it? You leave out if there has been any communication. Maybe she is in mental turmoil. I mean, it's not your job to fix her and if you want to leave, go. But if you love her in any way I would suggest at least talking to her.

[hahahmm]

The thing about females is that they tend to be passive which means that often when you think a relationship is serious she never thought that. She just let you think that. Some guys are passive too.


If you care more about her than she does about you: you will lose 100% of the time.


I don’t even think guys should bother with dating until they have built their lives up to where they know they can do it all on their own, in their sleep & they’ve achieved some really major life goals. But, a lot of guys don’t listen

[prettyboyjones]

Thats all the info we get? Wow. Well i say dump her then. Sounds like you already know thats what you want so fuck it. Dump her. Tell her she's strange then tell her you know she's really an alien sent to spy on us and that she'll never get away with it. W that breaknintona full sprint awaynfrom her until your outnof her sight and use your voodoo doll to place a hex on her.

[Anonymous]

Doing drugs,
getting tattoos,
certain piercings,
dressing skimpy,
going clubbing, going out drinking,
posing nude, nude beach, posing for art class, nude modeling, stripping, camming,
crossing boundaries with other men,
taking a job with travel required
of course any type of affair, kissing, touching with another guy

[Hitchhiker42]

Maybe ask her why she’s acting off before breaking up with her

[Niharika13]

I think you should have asked her what's going on with her.. After that you should come to any conclusion.
by the way as you updated that you brokw up with her.. It's yours choice.. But i think its better that you both understand each other reasons or try to solve them rather than that breaking up so easily on your relationships.

[cc-catlady]

If they cheated, abused me to only see me as his dumb bitch who he owns, and if they decided to change their views I placed my love for them because they had this tradition views I want my guy to have for us to grow through the beliefs I require for my boyfriemd to have thatll make me consider him to be someone I put above to love and only build him up with being successful as he plans to be in our lives to give us a beautiful future with.

[axe_can]

Lets say I’m currently feeling anxious, feel like I’m walking on eggshells, getting gaslighted all the time, and she’s always starting fights for no reason, If I can look 6 months down the road or even “forever” down the road and say “yah I don’t think I can live like I currently am with her” then it’s a good idea to let her go

[talulahbee]

Just for acting strangely? No... Who knows the reason. If they won't communicate with me what's going on then maybe. If it's something I can help with then I will. I break up if there's dishonesty, lack of effort, cheating, that kind of thing.

[hopegirly]

i broke up recently with my ex boyfriend because he was lying so much about many things (his life, his family...), i don't like his mysterious, i did not trust him so it is one reason for that

[Hazelstar99]

If you feel disrespected, distant, violated, invisible and wondering this question whether you want to continue or not. You should first try to communicate. If you or your partner still seem to be off about it. Then have a breakup.

[Flower7]

If they've cheated or if I've lost interest in them.

[Anonymous]

Your girlfriend is behaving Strangely? Can u tell me little details if u don't mind? I wanna know because it will help to guide my behavior.
In my case I will break up with a hot tempered guy, liar, deceiver and a flirt.

[vivmatt]

Maybe she's just on her period? Periods do strange things to women.

[MissDawn7961]

you act strangely to sometimes so only break up with her if you find her dating another man

[Bratsondanielle]

Cheating, drinking, weed, drugs or if he go shot up the mall

[Shezadi]

After sleeping with her, you no longer want to be with her. Shame on you.

[Liam_Hayden]

If I am unhappy. I don't mean momentarily perturbed, but when I reach a state of being unhappy with the relationship.