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My girlfriend has been behaving rather strangely since the past week or so and I'm not sure if i want to be with her anymore.
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24 d
I broke up with her.
- When he makes me feel unimportant, or embarrassed to be seen out with me, when we are sitting in the same room but we feel miles apart...
Sorry it ended, but you have to do what's best for you to make sure you're happy with your life0|10|0Is this still revelant? - When he start disrespecting me and lying and stop loving me.1|00|0Is this still revelant?
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2512- If he doesn’t show affection or pay attention to me or pursue me by spending time and effort keeping me happy or if he shows blatant disregard somehow - like one time the guy I like made a spill at work and he didn’t even apologize when I went to clean up the mess he created - but in the 4 months I knew him that was the only time he ever disrespected me3|10|0
- - If she cheats
- If she lies repeatedly or about something big so I can't trust her any more
- If she's verbally or physically abusive
- If being with her is making me more unhappy than happy over a significant period of time, I've discussed that with her multiple times and/or gone to counseling to try to find a solution, and it becomes clear that we're just not compatible any more.
Just being upset with her short term isn't enough (unless it's for one of the first three reasons above)3|00|0I once ended a long term relationship for those two reasons (verbal abuse and her making me unhappy way more than she made me happy). I tried everything I could think of first to make it work, including professional counseling, but when it became clear that it was never going to get any better, I left and I have never regretted that. I'm in a much better relationship now.
If it's only been a week in your case that things have been bad, I'd give it a lot more time than that. Anyone can have a bad week or two every now and then.
Did something happen that she's stressed or upset about to cause the change?I don't know what happened but from her end everything seemed to be about lust and I'm looking for something serious.
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Ok, if she just wants to hook up or be friends with benefits and you want a full relationship then that seems to be a fundamental incompatibility that probably can't be overcome.
- Have you tried talking to her about it? You leave out if there has been any communication. Maybe she is in mental turmoil. I mean, it's not your job to fix her and if you want to leave, go. But if you love her in any way I would suggest at least talking to her.1|10|0
- The thing about females is that they tend to be passive which means that often when you think a relationship is serious she never thought that. She just let you think that. Some guys are passive too.
If you care more about her than she does about you: you will lose 100% of the time.
I don’t even think guys should bother with dating until they have built their lives up to where they know they can do it all on their own, in their sleep & they’ve achieved some really major life goals. But, a lot of guys don’t listen1|00|0 - Thats all the info we get? Wow. Well i say dump her then. Sounds like you already know thats what you want so fuck it. Dump her. Tell her she's strange then tell her you know she's really an alien sent to spy on us and that she'll never get away with it. W that breaknintona full sprint awaynfrom her until your outnof her sight and use your voodoo doll to place a hex on her.0|04|1
You just read the description whilst completely ignoring the question. My question is not asking whether i should break up or not, its asking something else. Surely at 40, I'd assume you'd know how to read and interpret questions.
Well as a tech retard and an imbicile in general, i completely believe thats exactly what may have happened even tho i tried to find the rest. The revelation of this information is cause to double check and reply again
Maybe.Playing around with the words to make yourself sound like a highly intellectual person is kind of backfiring on you it seems mate. If you are like this in real life, kudos to them lot who are able to put up with it on a daily basis.
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Yeah i read it. she's been acting strange for a week and you're just not sure if you want to be with her anymore. Right? And under whatgrounds do u break up? Ok well thing is you dont need any grounds. If its as si. e as not wanting her anymore, then thats that. When she asks why you dont owe her an explanation but to be nice you might offer one and say im just not feeling it anymore or so. ething along those ljnes.
Is keyboard warrior your profession? I only ask because you're super awesome at it. I mean u actually hurt my feelings and even scared me a little. Wow. Thats something. Well at least you're good at something, right? Its worth bragging about if you ask me. Im joining your team.
No idea what you're on about mate. I'm good at a few things but its quite useless since I'm not making money from that.
Anonymous25 dDoing drugs,
getting tattoos,
certain piercings,
dressing skimpy,
going clubbing, going out drinking,
posing nude, nude beach, posing for art class, nude modeling, stripping, camming,
crossing boundaries with other men,
taking a job with travel required
of course any type of affair, kissing, touching with another guy5|00|0A religious guy. It's no problem once he follows the same rules as it concerns his opposite gender
Pilots and I guess by extension air hostess have highest divorce rates... I dont blame him... it is not very stabilizing emotionally according to the stretch of work.
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Your parents aren't the people making up the statistics then. 😊 My parents are still marrief but not together or happy. My fiance is a pilot and I'm very happy with him. So I was not thinking of my own experiences.
I say hello because in here in my base, we use the word hello, but every body can say hello as a form of greeting one another
- Maybe ask her why she’s acting off before breaking up with her5|10|0
- I think you should have asked her what's going on with her.. After that you should come to any conclusion.
by the way as you updated that you brokw up with her.. It's yours choice.. But i think its better that you both understand each other reasons or try to solve them rather than that breaking up so easily on your relationships.0|20|0 - If they cheated, abused me to only see me as his dumb bitch who he owns, and if they decided to change their views I placed my love for them because they had this tradition views I want my guy to have for us to grow through the beliefs I require for my boyfriemd to have thatll make me consider him to be someone I put above to love and only build him up with being successful as he plans to be in our lives to give us a beautiful future with.1|00|0
- Lets say I’m currently feeling anxious, feel like I’m walking on eggshells, getting gaslighted all the time, and she’s always starting fights for no reason, If I can look 6 months down the road or even “forever” down the road and say “yah I don’t think I can live like I currently am with her” then it’s a good idea to let her go2|10|0
- Just for acting strangely? No... Who knows the reason. If they won't communicate with me what's going on then maybe. If it's something I can help with then I will. I break up if there's dishonesty, lack of effort, cheating, that kind of thing.3|10|0
- i broke up recently with my ex boyfriend because he was lying so much about many things (his life, his family...), i don't like his mysterious, i did not trust him so it is one reason for that0|10|0
- If you feel disrespected, distant, violated, invisible and wondering this question whether you want to continue or not. You should first try to communicate. If you or your partner still seem to be off about it. Then have a breakup.0|00|0
- If they've cheated or if I've lost interest in them.0|10|0
She hasn't cheated. I'm kind of losing interest due to her behaviour becoming rather unacceptable.
Then that's a good reason to break up, since being in a relationship with her isn't making you happy.
Anonymous25 dYour girlfriend is behaving Strangely? Can u tell me little details if u don't mind? I wanna know because it will help to guide my behavior.
In my case I will break up with a hot tempered guy, liar, deceiver and a flirt.1|00|0- Maybe she's just on her period? Periods do strange things to women.0|00|0
Nope. This wasn't a period thing. Its been going on lately and repetitively. I've always been nice to her but she's just super manipulative.
- you act strangely to sometimes so only break up with her if you find her dating another man0|00|0
- Cheating, drinking, weed, drugs or if he go shot up the mall0|20|0
@alone4everguaranteed that would definitely be me... but a lot of my closest friends are too ... mostly drugs I guess but at least excessive drinking... I don't know I just don't like it anything to pollute my body I don't like ..
- Your inability to discern and to decide merit is likely to be your downfall.0|00|0
- If I am unhappy. I don't mean momentarily perturbed, but when I reach a state of being unhappy with the relationship.0|00|0
- If they're disrespectful, not affectionate anymore and spending less and less time with me.2|00|0
- Unfaithful and flaking on me.0|10|0
- Cheating, unfaithful, abuse, etc0|00|0
- Cheating
Lack of respect
Snooping0|00|0
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