How do I break up with someone I have been with for almost 4 years?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. I'm 27 and he is 46. I feel that I am ready to move on because he doesn't want to be married and keeps our relationship from his friends and ex wife and kids (his family knows about our relationship).

I can't help but feel a lot of resentment and regret probably do to the fact that this is my first relationship. I want to move on but find it very hard to do it because of the negative feelings I have.

He says we don't have to break up right away and we should enjoy our time together. That works great for him cause we only have sex and watch movies, we used to do a lot together and thats what I want again, we haven't spent a whole day together since November (he works 70 hours a week).
I feel lonely in our relationship.
How do I break up with someone I have been with for almost 4 years?
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