We'd been together 3 years and I love him probably too much. I sort of let myself go academically and occupationally so I was a stay at home mom. I did try to get a job after he requested but I ended up quitting it. Tonight when he broke it to me he said I was the kindest, most loving and caring woman he knew but I just wasn't motivated enough. I feel like there's more to it than that. The way he exited my life was him moving out of state and having me thinking me and his step daughter would follow. He told me we could continue to talk and even said I could visit him and I'm like what? Guys whats going on?