I feel this is definitely true. I cheated once when I was 13/14 and thought nothing of it. Young mind, as I got older 17-27 I realized it wasn’t right to cheat and never condoned in those actions again. I knew I wasn’t a cheater.
Thanks for your response and MHO!!
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I always thought my ex and I were a happy couple in love but he still cheated lol... maybe cause we were in a LDR :/
@Alyssa11 - So you learned why LDR's are a complete waste of time, effort, and emotion. Stats say within 90 days one or the other will find someone else. Consider dating someone you can actually SEE, and BE WITH, unless it's just a temporary seperation where you'll come back together in the very near future. Like away on an assignment, a deployment, or for school. Otherwise, it just doesn't work out. And that's not really cheating anyway. I mean, you weren't married, right? Just someone you saw from time to time? Or not at all? How often were you having sex with this man? Cuz I'm here to tell you, that is the ONLY way to bind a man to you - lots and lots of sex. That's how they connect. They just don't have the same emotional connection you do.
We met once while he was here in the UK, we started a LDR straight after that. We never saw each other again because of covid! No kissing, no sex, nothing... just affecting over FaceTime.It really sucks but we were planning to see each other this month, October, and we started dating towards the end of Feb. I found out he was sleeping with another girl in August through social media. It's crazy cause I could've sworn he loved me, I felt it. Not being able to have sex etc was completely out of our control.
@Alyssa11 - So, here's some honest facts about men and women, and romance...Women connect emotionally. Guys connect physically. This isn't to say guys don't have emotions, but there difference is quite stark in contrast. The ONLY way to bind a man to you to is by having a physical connection. A woman on the other hand, can fall in love with a man without ever even meeting him! I used to say this kind of tongue-in-cheek, without really believing that was possible, but it's been proven over and over hear by the comments women make on how they are just sure they are in love with someone, but you find out it's just all in their head - they've never even consummated a relationship. Some think a 'virtual affair' or someone they 'met online' they are in love with. While that may be so, the guy definitely is not, and she's just completely fabricated it all in her own little head. So, don't do this. Find a really great guy and DATE. Even date a lot of them - you don't have to have sex with them all. But they need to be guys you SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH IRL. You can't get to really know someone with out DATING. And dating a lot actually gives you enough experience and knowledge to be able to discern, to determine whether they're actually a match, are worthy, are worth your substantial investment in time and emotion. Most simply will not be. This is your JOB in dating - to be able to decide if they're a keeper. If they're not, cut them loose so you CAN find one, and they can go find a better match as well. YOU are the only one in charge of this for yourself!
It's funny cause I didn't want a RS and especially not a LDR but he was so persistent about it lol. Thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it!
@somesoulThat is messed up.
This is a great answer that proves that mistakes don’t prove you should labeled, because if you are human and everyone deserves a second chance.
I sang a song once... Does that make me a singer? Should I immediately get album and thousands of offers as well as shit ton of money?
@Vito123123 you should’ve replied with a comment on this post. I would’ve gave you MHO as your answer here justifies doing something once doesn’t ultimately define you as that.
Wait a second I'm a killer? I thought I was life relinquishing
So if a person touched a child he wouldn't be a pedo because he done it once
How is it a mistake when cheating is a choice because the dick does not accidentally go inside of someone. You don't accidently finger someone or lick them.