Why guys want to us back when they break up? Even if its been a year that we don't fit together and we try to fit in?

RedHatWitch
Its always the same story,
My last big relation was about 2 years and a half. We try for a year and a half to fit in.

We broke up in the end of April.
Last week (October) he was thinking a lot since the confinement and he was so sorry to not be there for me, even if he loved me but he was so cold during that time.
I felt like a nothingless.
We were not speaking the same love language.
I know deeply that we were not fitting together, not a good match finally.
I was sad for all that time, so I did my things on my side, he was angry about my need of spending money. (A way to feel better)
But he never told me since.
We were different, about our futur also.
He loved me but I did not feeling it.
He was always on his PC, phone. We did not have serious talk. He lost his joy.
At the end, we were never arguing on nothing cus he don't speak or talk.

At the end, It was a "good morning" "how are you" "did you have break fast?" "Im going to the groeceries" "good night" " i love you.." daily conversation..
Why guys want to us back when they break up? Even if its been a year that we don't fit together and we try to fit in?
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