I stayed married 26 years stayed 20 of those years for the kids and even though it took more strength than you can imagine I have no regrets because of my beautiful kids
Then stay single. Don't get married if you can't handle your responsibilities. It's not about your happiness. Learn to make your happiness. Marriage as relationships is not about you. It's not all about you. It's about the other person. And if all you're going to care about is yourself, then you stay by yourself. It's as simple as that because nobody needs to get hurt or get used for sex or anything else on the counter you because you want what you wanted and then you don't want it anymore. It's a sacrifice. It's take work. Hard work. And if you're not going to be willing to put the effort than you're going to fail.
Everybody only have one life. If you don't want to be miserable then as I said before you are better off remaining single and don't get yourself involved with a woman on that level. You're going to end up hurting somebody else because of your negligence. Marriage is for happy people. Not miserable people.
Divorce since marriage is great with happiness, so where there is no happiness then that is not marriage it is a disaster instead. #runaway when you still can.
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If we couldn't salvage the marriage, I'd leave but work with him to to co-parent , so the kids aren't affected as much by our separation.
If he didn't cheat and wasn't disrespectful then i’d try to make it work. But once the kids go to college, i’d def roll out
I will stay no mather what, it whas olso my chois to say "yes" when it whas the time. Now i will suport the consequens
I can't answer that without the experience
Now the answer is always Yes I'm leaving that marriage kids or not
Probably depends whether unhappy means fighting or unhappy means just... dead marriage but get along ok.
im in a sexless, affection less marriage. That probably answers your question.
I will try to stick it out and salvage the marriage for the kids sake and maybe we could rekindle an old flame that we once had me and my wife
I stayed married 26 years stayed 20 of those years for the kids and even though it took more strength than you can imagine I have no regrets because of my beautiful kids
Leave. I only have one life and I’m not gonna spend most of it being miserable.
Then stay single. Don't get married if you can't handle your responsibilities. It's not about your happiness. Learn to make your happiness. Marriage as relationships is not about you. It's not all about you. It's about the other person. And if all you're going to care about is yourself, then you stay by yourself. It's as simple as that because nobody needs to get hurt or get used for sex or anything else on the counter you because you want what you wanted and then you don't want it anymore. It's a sacrifice. It's take work. Hard work. And if you're not going to be willing to put the effort than you're going to fail.
Everybody only have one life. If you don't want to be miserable then as I said before you are better off remaining single and don't get yourself involved with a woman on that level. You're going to end up hurting somebody else because of your negligence. Marriage is for happy people. Not miserable people.
It really depends on how bad the marriage is. But I will say this if its really bad I'd leave and we'd just have to coparent
Divorce since marriage is great with happiness, so where there is no happiness then that is not marriage it is a disaster instead.
#runaway when you still can.
I think that really depends on a lot of factors. I don't think that's a simple answer at all.
This is why I think people shouldn't jump into merriage in their 20s because it always goes to shit
I agree with you hatred. Have you been drinking tonight?
I would say , why are you unhappy. Or is it boredom
i'd stay for my kids... and try to fix what i got...
If I don't have kids, then I'd file for annulment. We don't have divorce in our country.
Divorce, women will take the kids and the house as we know. anyway.
That's a tough one. It seens today kids dont matter. Its the kids who carry most of the hurt
Get a divorce fuck dem kids🥰
You are too much! 😋😋😋
I did that when my daughter was 2. But we got divorced when she was 7 anyway.
I would stay back and try to make it up for kids