My husband told me he is getting his own apartment and wants a divorce because we are not good for each other and our marriage is a joke. Basically his reason is I watch movies in bed all day eating candy and I’ve gained 75 lbs and I’m a slob. This is very hurtful to hear and I can’t afford to pay my own rent. What am I supposed to do? I’m really heartbroken. There must be someone else. He’s not even mad at me or a acting upset.