Advice on getting over an ex?

[nawtee_me]

You know the break up from a relationship is like the loss of a loved one or a pet. There is a grieving process you need to go through in order to get over it. People who don't go through that process carry those feelings into the next relationship. For example, you would not want to get into a relationship with a guy and his ex! But if he doesn't grieve and process the feelings then he brings her with him into the relationship.
You need to get past the old relationship and the break up as well. The break up is a loss that you put two years into. There are feelings there, what are they? anger maybe? certainly there was love? The pain of these feelings are what you need to process through... Message me if you want to talk through it.

[ohshee]

Wow your first relationship. Take a deep breath and tell your self and say it out loud I thank you for your time and teaching me everything never want to happen again , remember all the pain you feel is reall love you have to offer,,, remind yourself you are beautiful. And also tell your self it is ok to feel this pain because the day you decide not to feel it anymore is comming soon and you won't look back and the best way to get over it is to replace it the faster u can do that the sooner you will start seeing thinkingband feeling things different. Remember you have been in a world thst might not have been right so if u ever want to vent or just chat come say hi

[Avicenna]

It takes time. You need to distract yourself while the feelings are still raw.

[MM442]

Have a hobby painting, knitting, books, video games, puzzles etc. That will give you a sense of accomplishment and take your mind off of him.

[Valnac]

Find someone new, and feel that tingly felling again.